Remodeling, reorganization, and redoing seems like a constant theme of our life. Possibly because we bought a really outdated home for a bargain price. At that time we believed the remodeling challenges were worth the deal considering we were getting prime reality in a prime location…surely we were up for the undertaking…right? Laugh, laugh, laugh at us! We had never owned a “fixer upper” and we were totally naive to what it would actually take to get this home where it needed to be. I can still recall us (ok, primarily me) walking through the house saying “we can fix this, and change that, and do this” like it was easy or something. I had big vision and this visionary ability got the sellers their much-needed sell and bought us a lot of work. When I mean outdated, think everything needed for a home to function….windows, roof, furnace, siding, air conditioning, carpet, floors, paint, kitchen, bathrooms, EVERYTHING [ doe, rae, me $$$). But our budget didn’t cover everything and we refused to go into big debt. Thus, it has been a process and we are winding down on our list. Could we actually be almost done??? Big sigh.
So this leads us to our most recent project — daughter’s room. It is the third largest of our four bedrooms. We painted it when we moved in but now that she is a teen, she has been wanting to re-think the look considering it hasn’t been touched since her earlier years and her nasty chihuahua decided to pee all over the carpet. Gross. We are heavy into the process and I’m feeling a wee bit overwhelmed. Not because it is difficult or anything. I know difficult, I lived difficult during our 6 month kitchen remodel when my promised 3-4 days without a functioning kitchen turned into 12 weeks!! I was cooking our meals on hot plates in the garage and it was not a pretty sight. We became proficient at eating on styrofoam and plastic and finding a somewhat clean place to eat where the dry wall dust had not invaded (if that’s even possible). That experience tested the fiber of my being and I perfected my glare which I routinely utilized to bore holes into the back of the heads of the lying contractors!
So this minor remodel is mild in comparison. However, I am overwhelmed and I think it has to do with focus. She has an idea in mind and is very, very good at communicating her need [demands] but when we enter IKEA it is like all logical, organized brain matter evacuates and a jumbletron of randomness enters. I even had a list, complete with measurements, dimensions and drawings to help keep my focus on the task at hand but it turned into mush too. Have you ever been there? I see this, she sees that…oh wouldn’t this look nice here or that there? Do we need this? How about that? Look at that design! How did they do that room? This would be nice to do. And all functioning practicality is lost and replaced with overwhelming fatigue and confusion. It is during these times of futility that I plop onto one of the chairs, or on the bed totally wishing for this design to be our finished room project. It is there that we sit and discuss life as we wait for the cameras to being rolling one of the famous IKEA commercials.
I give designers A LOT of applause. Let’s make it a standing ovation! How they do it, I’ll never know but I do know that if we could afford one, I’d be dialing them instead of blogging about it right now! We should be done with the major room stuff in a week and then the world of accessories will be left. Focus, focus, focus!!